When my parents drove me home my mother held me in her arms. I wasn't in a car seat. I never knew bike helmets existed until I was in college. I played outside with kids (of different ages) in my neighborhood, and we ran through the woods with sticks in our hands and threw pine cones at each other. If my teachers said everything was fine, then things were good, and if I got in trouble then I would get spanked again once I got home!
By today's standards my parents would be considered irresponsible. Today's parents seem to think that they need to control everything about their kids' lives. These parents want to believe that they're "being good parents" and controlling their kids' environments and activities for the good of the children. The truth, however, is that the parents are just plain
obnoxious and self-centered. It's not the kids that they're worried about, it's their own reputation and the vicarious success.
I hope that our kids will have the chance to be kids. Children need to run around outside without schedules. They need to climb trees, fall out, get hurt, and go to the hospital. They need to have the occasional fight to learn when the best defense is to run and when the best choice is to defend one's honor. And parents just need to butt out.
If others want to label me as an irresponsible parent, then I'll wear that label with pride.